An Open Letter to You, From My Daughter Aubrey...
(first, a note from mom)
This is all very weird, but, I ask for honesty in the forum and out... I really should expect it, right? I asked my daughter Aubrey, (Brey), to write about how she feels to have a mother who has manic depression, bipolar disorder... and, she wrote the following... I have learned w/the forum's guests over the past few years that others have
similar households which helps some. But, as the insecurity of this disorder creeps on me from time to time and the need for approval from everyone in the world feels so very vital, this does tend to sting a bit. I love my daughter w/all my heart...
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Well when she is manic (on the happy side) I enjoy her, and enjoy spending time with her. She is very hyper, crazy, and a blast to be with. She usually doesnt yell at me when she is like this. She is not lazy and willing to do things with me. When she is like this it seems like she is "normal" and doesnt have a disease. She is willing to do things and like go out to shop, pretty much she knows to have fun. I think as hard as it is to change her attitude, I would like her to enjoy me and have fun with me as a teenager because its not going to last for ever.
Since my mom has this disease my life-style is different. It makes me kind of mad how my mom always wants me to clean when actually she doesnt clean. I feel like Im missing a part of my moms life. She only practically spends time with Petey.
Well I guess that is all for now. There is good and bad things as a mom having manic depression.
~*~AuBrEy~*~ 14 years*~
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